I've heard the argument lately in some version, "we have our own people here who need our help so why are we going to lend a hand to people of another country?" You are absolutely right, 100%. And now I say, if this is your belief and you feel this way then get off your damn ass and do something about it. Don't bitch about the state of the world while you sit inside your warm home, with access to food and water, dicking around on your computer for 6 hours after finishing a day at a job you are likely ungrateful for. I bet there are people around you in your community, probably even people you know who could use a helping hand right now this very moment. Maybe money is tight this month and they could use a meal or a tank of gas, so do it. Be the change you wish to see in the world! I know, you're not loaded, I'm not either but there are things you can do that do not require money. So maybe you don't have money to help someone, I know you have time. Go volunteer at a homeless shelter and hand out food or jackets and I am not suggesting you give away all your free time, shit just do it once. If there isn't a shelter in your area start one! Find a severe cold weather shelter and offer to stay the night (these are often at churches), these places are always looking for volunteers. You know the homeless man or woman you see on the street corner everyday, give her a jacket, some warm socks or a warm meal. Before you cast your shame and judgement why don't you ask her how she got there, how her life took such a turn that she is now begging for a few dollars to feed her belly and maybe her kids. I doubt it's how you assumed she ended up there. We could all use a little more compassion for the people around us.
You want some warranted fear? Be afraid your sedentary lifestyle is going to lead you to diabetes, cardiovascular problems or some other chronic debilitating health condition. If you aren't already afraid start worrying about the shit your kids are eating, breathing and drinking because it's making them sick, sad and unhealthy. The fear should be in your kids being raised by TV's, not knowing how to prepare food for themselves, having no respect for themselves or others or not knowing the importance of moving your body. These are valid fears, we know these things lead to depression, obesity and sickness in all forms. Focusing on if we allow these refugees in our country we will be bringing terrorism here is crazy, news flash terrorism has already tainted our soil. So stop being part of the problems in this world and start being part of the solution.
These topics have been heavy on my heart with the way the world has been turning lately. I currently work a half day a week at a homeless women and youth shelter in downtown Seattle providing medical care. As the holidays near and the weather get's colder the illnesses, pain and sadness increases exponentially. You think your depression is bad in the winter, try suffering from such horrible PTSD and depression you ended up homeless. And now imagine dealing with your depression on the streets in 35 degree weather. It can be a tough world out there, many of us know this fact. There's probably been a time in your life you were kicked when you were down instead of offered the helping hand you so needed. Instead of making it a tougher, harder world let's work together to make it softer, more compassionate and full of love. If it feels too overwhelming, it's ok because it is overwhelming when you really think of it all. There are things you can do though, and if you can't think of any I would be happy to help you brainstorm. I leave you with the Black Eyed Peas and Where is the love?


